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Future Faking

By CraigG on Mar 30, 2021 01:01 am

One phony way narcissistic people keep you hooked. All those promises! All those dreams! Was it future faking? That's a very common way that #Hijackals keep you engaged in the relationship. Learn how it works...and, what really doesn't work about it. You need to see this clearly, or you'll be hooked on hope! All you
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Renowned Thoracic Surgeon Shares How Doctors Can Increase Empathy & Compassion By CraigG on Mar 26, 2021 10:12 am

Why is this episode on empathy & compassion important on a show about toxic relationships? Because your doctor--and other healers--need to be empathetic, aware, interested, listening, and compassionate. Empathy & compassion in care is critical to complete healing and health. Some care practitioners are wonderful. Others, not so much. You need to find one that
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Do you ever think ‘I’m Feeling Taken For Granted In My Relationship?” By Dr. Rhoberta Shaler on Mar 25, 2021 06:33 am

Feeling taken for granted is an underlying relationship problem that can pop up regularly. It wears many disguises in a relationship. When your partner finds ways to justify behavior that leaves you feeling unheard, unseen, and unsupported, it's likely that you will start feeling taken for granted. S/he just expects that you will somehow understand
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7 Unhealthy Patterns You Learn Growing Up in a Narcissistic Family By CraigG on Mar 24, 2021 10:07 am

You may not even know you picked up all this from narcissistic family dynamics in your life. When you hear these things, you may find the key to unlocking relationship difficulties you've had in your adult life. Definitely worth listening to! Is your narcissistic family past negatively affecting your adult relationships now? We take SO
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Relationship Help: Co-Existing, Co-Operating or Collaborating? By Dr. Rhoberta Shaler on Mar 17, 2021 11:15 pm

Co-existing? Co-operating? Collaborating? Which is it generally in your relationship? It's important to contemplate these distinctions because they make all the difference in the viability and the vitality of your relationship. You can look the words up in a dictionary and you'll find there is little distinction, but in terms of relationship help, there are
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How Toxic Relationships Can Wear Down Your Body & Ruin Your Health By CraigG on Mar 12, 2021 08:54 am

You may think you're coping well with a toxic partner, parent, sibling, or adult child. Your body will complain in many ways. Tune in to recognize those many ways your body says "Too much!" You may think that you're experiencing the natural wear and tear on your health. But, if you're in a toxic relationship,
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How to Finally Believe A Hijackal Doesn’t Love You By CraigG on Mar 09, 2021 10:54 pm

16 Clear Ways They Show They Don't! You want to believe that a Hijackal--a toxic, difficult, perhaps narcissistic person--loves you. You SO want to believe it. They don't have much love to give and here are 16 ways to recognize that they aren't giving it to you. An eye-opener! HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE: The transactional
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Setting Boundaries That are Clear & Well-Expressed? By Dr. Rhoberta Shaler on Mar 02, 2021 11:40 am

Ever feel used, abused and confused?  It may be that you are suffering from "Boundaryitis".  You're frustrated because people walk all over you. You have nothing to keep you safe. That's what setting boundaries is all about. Boundaries are fundamentally important to creating healthy relationships. They are essential in relationships with people you love, or
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How Hijackals Hook You Into Toxic Relationships By CraigG on Mar 01, 2021 11:34 pm

How to Unhook, Step Back, and See More Clearly What's Really Going On Hijackals create toxic relationships, and it's important to see the patterns, traits, cycles, and behaviors clearly. That's not easy, but it is necessary. If you've been with a Hijackal or other toxic person for long, you may feel as though you suffer
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