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Save Your Sanity - Help for Toxic Relationships

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Feeling Stuck & Second-Guessing Yourself? 

Published on Apr 05, 2021 10:18 pm

Yes, you are wise to be self-reflective, asking yourself "What is my part in the relationship difficulties?" #Hijackals and other toxic people want you to taking responsibility for the whole relationship. They are happy to tell you that everything is your fault. You know that.


In this episode, I'm addressing the three BIG questions I am asked so frequently when someone gets to the point of considering leaving, or has recently left a toxic relationship. These three questions cause them to further second-guess themselves from within. Sure, ask those three questions and answer them honestly...ONCE. Then, take action.


#Hijackals and those with narcissistic tendencies and traits know they can baffle you with sweet talk, double talk, or straight out lies. They know. Don't believe them! Yes, it's easier said than done, I know. But, don't believe them. They are behaving from self-interest alone.


Then, don't start feeding yourself the doubts the Hijackal planted within you. That's their thing: keep you in chaos and confusion, always giving them the benefit of the doubt. It is not healthy, and don't buy it.


So, these three big questions come up. Hopefully, after you listen to this episode, you'll be done with those and ready to move forward with a clearer picture of where you're going, what you want, and what you don't. Listen in.


HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

  • Why being self-reflective is a good first strategy
  • Why it's important to get things in perspective for yourself
  • Don't make excuses for a Hijackal and keep yourself stuck
  • The three questions that keep you stuck...or, make you consider going back
  • How, once you've thoroughly explored these three questions, you'll never have to answer them again



You want to be a good person, a fair person, in your relationship. Usually, if you're with a Hijackal, you'll be doing most of the giving, and the Hijackal will happily take, take, take. That's best clearly seen and stopped. Then, be ready to remind yourself of the answers so you don't have to think it through again. I wish you well.


I'm always here to help.


Big hugs!

Rhoberta


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