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February 2015



Welcome to the February issue of our Helping Parents Heal Newsletter!  

We are glad you have found us.  This newsletter is a space that allows us to share our amazing children. We are all in this together.  We understand and we walk the same path. Thank you  for your compassion and for the constant support you provide.  Together, we will help each other heal!  


Once again, this month's newsletter contains stories of validation and spiritual growth.  We hope that it will bring some peace and comfort to you and your loved ones.  Sending love, light and warm memories to each one of you as you navigate this bittersweet time.  You are not alone.

-Elizabeth Boisson, Co-Founder and President of Helping Parents Heal, Newsletter Editor and Affiliate Leader for Scottsdale/Phoenix.
Sherri and Glenn Dove with Elizabeth and Cyril Boisson

We had the pleasure of seeing Psychic Medium Glenn Dove with his wife Sherri during a recent trip to Arizona.  Glenn hosted the November meeting of Helping Parents Heal - NYC at the home of our affiliate leader, Sheri Perl Migdol.  Glenn and his wife Sherri are avid hikers and had spent the day in Sedona, a sacred, beautiful place with several energy vortexes.  They came back amazed and enchanted.  For those of you who are thinking of visiting Arizona, here is a description of an energy vortex from the 'Love Sedona' website:  'There are four main energy vortexes  in Sedona. The subtle energy that exists at these locations interacts with who a person is inside. The energy resonates with and strengthens the Inner Being of each person that comes within about a quarter to a half mile of it. This resonance happens because the vortex energy is very similar to the subtle energy operating in the energy centers inside each person. If you are at all a sensitive person, it is easy to feel the energy at these vortexes". To learn more about Sedona and its vortexes, please click here
The Famous Red Rocks of Beautiful Sedona, Arizona


Yogi Thaddeus Ferguson
Our December Scottsdale Meeting with Yogi Thaddeus Ferguson

Our December meeting with Thaddeus Ferguson was helpful and healing.  Thaddeus is a Yogi and a Prayer Chaplain at Unity of Phoenix.  He taught us Yoga movements to heal grief and led us in a Guided Mediation through Yoga that allowed all of us to connect with our children.  Thaddeus will be returning to host our group at our February 26th meeting at Unity of Phoenix from 6:30 to 8:30 pm.  Please join us!  Wear comfortable clothing and bring a pillow and a blanket if you'd like. You can RSVP on the 'events' tab on Facebook here.  

Psychic Medium Christine Salter
Please join us for our January 22nd meeting of Helping Parents Heal - Scottsdale from 6:30 to 8:30 pm at Unity of Phoenix. Psychic Medium, spiritual teacher and energy healer Christine Salter will be delivering validations and messages from our children.  Christine led us in a Guided Mediation at our November meeting and parents loved her.  You can RSVP on the 'events' tab on Facebook here.

Parents Making a Difference-
Help Save the Next Girl - Gil and Dan Harrington
Morgan Dana Harrington and her beloved Yorkie, Spike.


Help Save the Next Girl is a national non-profit organization formed in honor of Morgan Dana Harrington, a 20-year-old Virginia Tech student who was abducted and murdered in 2009. It seeks to sensitize young women and girls to predatory danger.

The foundation fosters mutual respect and camaraderie with young men, and is committed to being an active, imaginative presence on campuses and in clubs and violence prevention forums across the country.

Help Save the Next Girl continually develops vital relationships with media and law enforcement. Its connections enhance its ability to quickly disseminate urgent information, such as about a missing person.

Help Save the Next Girl also provides outreach support to victims' families. Their media presence also promotes its mission to keep young women and campus communities alert to predatory danger.

The foundation participates actively in endorsing legislation which augments safety practices in communities.

Through diligent activism in education, victim support, and legislation, Help Save the Next Girl 
creates a strong foundation against violence to indeed help save the next girl.

Gil tells me that Morgan and Spike are now together.  He is most certainly a wonderful companion.  Gil has told me "I believe we can transcend loss.  For me the path to healing is through service".  What better way to pay tribute to our beautiful children.

Please learn more about Morgan Harrington and her foundation at the following link.

Helpful, Healing Books
Your Life After Their Death by Karen Noé

In Your Life After Their Death, psychic medium Karen Noé demonstrates how to move on and enjoy life again after losing a loved one. She often states, “Your deceased loved ones are okay and want you to be okay, too!”
 
Karen offers sympathetic yet practical advice as a person who has also suffered through loss and wants to share what she’s found to be most helpful. She guides the reader through healing techniques she has used on herself and with clients, such as the Emotional Freedom Technique (also known as tapping), Ho’oponopono, the Law of Attraction, Energy Healing, Prayer, and Meditation. She also demonstrates how to maintain a connection with loved ones who have passed away. Her book teaches how to communicate with loved ones  and recognize “without a doubt” signs from them, as well as how to connect with a reputable psychic medium.

Your Life After Their Death is truly an inspirational book that offers comfort and peace to those who were left behind by their loved ones. It also offers practical exercises that will assist you in your journey back to a life filled with hope.”
— Anita Moorjani, author of Dying to Be Me


Please visit Karen's website here


Please click here to download a free Guided Meditation by Psychic Medium Susanne Wilson that allows us to connect with our children.  
Debra Martin and Sheri Getten
Debra and Sheri, gifted healers who have been featured in previous newsletters, are finishing a new book entitled Direct Connect to God that will be published at the end of this month.  We will let you know more as soon as it is available!

Free Webinar
Doryce Norwood, a Founding Member of Helping Parents Heal, recommended a free webinar that is sponsored by The Compassionate Friends, on January 18th at 5:00 PM PST, entitled New Year's Resolution-Dealing with Anger.  Please click here  if you might be interested in attending.

 

Affiliate Groups and their Facilitators (by alphabetical order):

Jennifer Amato Tom’s Creek, NJ
email:
jennifer0702@optonline.net  
After the passing of Jennifer's 2 year old son Joey, Jennifer found support from other bereaved parents. She is now finding healing in helping other bereaved parents learn to cope with their loss. Jennifer and Christine are co-hosts for Tom’s River.

Tina Babloski-Anderson Citrus County FL
email:
helpingparentsheal@yahoo.com  
Tina Babloski-Anderson is a grieving mother who has learned to laugh again since the loss of her son Paul G. Babloski on October 1st, 2009. Her efforts to find comfort have led her on a journey that has not only helped to heal herself, but to bring smiles on the faces of other grieving parents. Tina said, "There is no one here in Citrus County, Florida that could understand the loss of a child, except for another parent that has experienced the same pain. So, we formed a group that supports and celebrates each other’s children. We find that by supporting each other, we can learn to laugh again.

Elizabeth Boisson-Scottsdale, AZ
email: evboisson@yahoo.com

Since the passing of her son Morgan at the Base Camp of Mount Everest due to acute altitude sickness on a student trip to Tibet in October 2009, Elizabeth has held monthly parent meetings in Arizona. She founded both the Facebook site, ‘Parents United in Loss’ in February, 2010 and then partnered with Mark Ireland to co-found ‘Helping Parents Heal’ in February 2012.  She cherishes the opportunity to meet both parents and their children in spirit.

Kristen Brown-Sanders Pensacola, FL
email:
kristensanders@mcshi.com  
Kristen Brown-Sanders started The Next Step group in FL in January 2010 after her beloved daughter Sarah transitioned due to a distracted driver.  The Next Step linked in with Helping Parents Heal in 2012.

NEW GROUP - Lancy Carr-Washington DC
email: lncycrr@yahoo.com  

I have lived in Arizona since 1983. I met Karla Kay at Bikram yoga Tempe which I started doing shortly after Nathan passed away.  She told me about an event and I met Linda West, the first psychic exposure for me! It healed my heart a little and made me want to learn more. I also met Justine Schrimer at that meeting and she told me about HPH. The first meeting I knew this is what would work for me.  I have enjoyed all the support, love and hope that is shared at every meeting. I got a new job in DC in Dec 2013 and I now want to not only support this wonderful non-profit, as it has given me so much help in my grief, but to help others heal as well.

Nancy Courtmanche-Eureka, CA
email:
nancycougar@gmail.com
The loss of my son Robb, 29, has made me painfully aware of the need for parents to have a group setting that is safe and confidential. Healing occurs. Out of my loss I dedicated myself to service for others in volunteer Hospice patient care and grief support, as a Hospital Chaplain, and healing work.  This has prepared me to lead an HPH group now.

Janice Crowder-Torrez-Tucson, AZ
email: jcrowdertorrez@gmail.com

Wanting to honor her son’s spirit, courage, and the many gifts he left behind, Janice discovered Helping Parents Heal in Scottsdale, AZ.  Opening the door for other parents to grieve their loss, while offering support to small groups, Janice decided to start a chapter in Tucson where she resides and her son Anthony, aged 31, took his life. Janice is a MSN and certified in Meditation.

Lori Fina Jennings-Columbus, OH
email: 
lafj1@hotmail.com 
My son died at age 30 of a drug overdose. My surviving daughter has Down Syndrome. Life has blessed me with so many unique gifts & learning opportunities. I'd like to "be there" for people as my son was. My book, Liam's Lessons, was written with the help of my son shortly after he died. Practicing Isha Yoga has been my saving grace.

Sheryl Hill-Minneapolis, Minnesota
email:
sheryl.hill@me.com  
Tyler, my beautiful sixteen year old son, died a preventable death on a People to People Student Ambassador Trip to Japan in 2007. My most important achievements are being a mother, a wife, nonprofit endeavors with the Clear Cause Foundation (to keep American children and students safe on foreign soil) and perhaps my work as an author. I did not lose the ones I love who have passed. I know where they are.

Julia LaJoie-Washington DC
email:
JALAJMD@gmail.com  
I joined Helping Parents Heal in April of 2012 when I met Mark Ireland, Anne Puryear and Elizabeth Boisson at a conference in Phoenix, AZ on After Death Communication. There were many parents like myself who had lost a child and had discovered the healing that comes from ADC and other forms of spiritual growth. I am eager to join hands and hearts with other parents in the Baltimore - Washington area to grow our network and support each other in healing and spiritual growth.

Patti May- Ottawa, Ontario
email:
pattimay@rogers.com  
I am a mother of 3 wonderful children, married 30 years to their father.I lost my son Adam in 2006 in a tragic auto accident. Since losing my son I have had afterlife signs that have helped me.  I began to search for like-minded parents to share our experiences. I came across the wonderful group Helping Parents Heal and asked if I could start a group here in Canada.

Jessalyn Nash- Sonoma County, CA
email: pwrolove@sonic.net  

Jessalyn Nash, M.A. has facilitated groups for over 25 years and is involved in the restorative justice movement. After her beloved 21-year-old son, Trystan passed away, Jessalyn has dedicated herself to helping other grieving parents.

NEW GROUP - Glenda Pearson-Granger, IN
email:
glendia456@aol.com 
Glenda is a Reiki Master, Munay Ki practitioner, intuitive guide, Stephen's Minister, author and Certified Grief Recovery Method Specialist.  Reflected in her book, But Should The Angels Call For Him, she speaks of her personal loss through the death of her only child, Chad, and believes there is healing for everyone.

Maria Pe - San Diego
email: maria.i.pe@hotmail.com

Maria Pe, J.D., is the mother of Sean Robert and Kyle Joseph, her two sons who transitioned to the other side on June 21, 2011.  That day was the beginning of Maria’s profound spiritual journey to find out where her sons went and how she could continue to have a relationship with them.  Having been educated in Western culture and trained as an attorney, Maria was skeptical and had no idea where to turn for the information and answers she was seeking.  She was guided to a shamanic practitioner who taught her how to raise her consciousness and energy levels through meditation so that she could connect with her sons.  She began keeping a written journal of her experiences which culminated in her book, Journey To The Upper Realm:  How I Survived the Deaths of My Sons and Learned to Communicate With Them on the Other Side (free at www.seanandkyleimaginefund.com and in hard copy on Amazon).   By sharing and talking about her own experience, she hopes to help other bereaved parents.

Sheri Perl-New York, NY
email: sheriperl@gmail.com  

Sheri Perl Migdol is a spiritual healer, an interfaith minister, an author, lecturer and mother of 3 children, one deceased. Sheri is the founder of The Prayer Registry, a free service for all bereaved parents. www.sheriperl.com.

Christine Volpe-Tom’s Creek NJ
email:
cvolpe68@gmail.com  
After the passing of her 17 year old son, James, due to a vehicle accident Christine has spent countless hours helping other bereaved parents.  She is devoted to help other parents find tools to help them in their grief. Christine and Jennifer are co-hosts for Tom’s River.


NEW GROUP - Irene Vouvalides-Hilton Head, SC
email: ivouvalides@aol.com 

I lost my 24 year old daughter to esophageal - gastric cancer on February 17, 2013. She was my best friend, my only child. I have been on a spiritual quest since, reading constantly, writing about my life. I have had two sessions with George Anderson and had a phone session with Laurie Campbell. Having recently moved to South Carolina, I am very interested in connecting with other parents here. So happy to find and read Mark Ireland's books and have also taken great comfort in reading Dr Brian Weiss's books.


Laura Wilmot-Fall’s Church, VA
email:
laurawilmot@gmail.com  
A retired federal HR Director, Laura taught Mexican Folk dance to children and adults and performed Mariachi music with her family for several years.  She “connects up” to her son through meditation and prayer.

Please contact Elizabeth Boisson (evboisson@yahoo.com) if you would like to start an affiliate chapter in your area.


Mission statement of Helping Parents Heal:

Our mission is to help parents who have lost children, giving them support and resources to aid in the healing process. We will go a step beyond other groups by allowing the open discussion of spiritual experiences and evidence for the afterlife, but in a non-dogmatic way. In other words, we will welcome everyone regardless of their religious (or non-religious) background and allow for a very open type of dialog.

-Mark Ireland, Co-Founder, Helping Parents Heal 

Sending peace, love and white light to you and your children






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Helpful, Healing Information

Stories of Validation -
Kristine & Ernie Jackson and their son, Quinton
Quinton and his Yellow Truck
In April 2014, at a presentation by Dr Eben Alexander, author of "Proof of Heaven" and Karen Newell at Unity of Phoenix, it was awesome being around so many people who had the same mindset. I have never once doubted that there is more, nor have I ever questioned where my loved ones have gone. The evening was simply amazing but that was not the highlight. Our highlight of the evening was when Susanne Wilson, who is a Psychic Medium, turned to us at the end of the evening and asked "Can I share something with you both?" Of course we were all ears. She said "45 minutes into the presentation Quinton came to me, he snapped his fingers and said, 'now I have your attention. Quinton would be getting his driver’s permit this upcoming school year, he said he already knows how to drive". I validated that, saying “Yes Quinton would be turning 15 this year.” She went onto say that "After the accident he was with Ernie Jackson". I confirmed that Ernie Jackson wrote in his first book "Quinton's Messages" that he knew someone was holding his hand, but my husband had no idea this was possible. You see, it wasn't until weeks after that he realized it was 'Q' and that his reality of what he thought to be true would forever be changed. Susanne said: "He is the godfather, and asked do you know what that means"? Indeed I knew what that meant. He is the Godfather to his sister Cheyanne Cano-Garcia’s beautiful baby boy Salvador Quinton. She mentioned he is going to be a doctor, which didn't surprise me, he is an intelligent young man and loved helping and making people better. Lastly she said: "he's showing me a yellow dump truck". I confirmed that when we bought the house for Cheyanne and her family, there was a small yellow dump truck left in the back yard. The couple we bought the home from had no kids.... Also, Quinton got to experience riding in a yellow crane truck at our neighbor’s house when they were working on their new house.
Quinton on the Backhoe
Susanne went on to to say he is a gentle soul and has been with us the entire evening. He must have been that beautiful bird we saw flying over us while we enjoyed our Sushi at Unity Church. This was the highlight. Susanne knew nothing about us except that we lost our son. She asked nothing of us except for our time to relay her message. This is the power of our loved ones and the souls that have been given the gift to communicate with the "Other Side". Q has tremendously blessed us and we know that there is no goodbye.  It is until we meet again. Thank you for taking the time to read. Many blessings to you and may your life be full of love and light.
 

-Quinton's proud mom, Kristine

Ernie Jackson is the author of Quinton's Messages and is a Board Member of Helping Parents Heal.

Hanne Hansen and her son, Meikel
On June 15, 2012, at the age of 15, my son Meikel graduated to The University of the Divine.  Meikel had been battling a rare adolescent cancer called Alveolar Rhabdomyosarcoma.  We had been fighting it for a little more then a year and it seemed he was getting better.  Then the cancer got more aggressive and took over.

Watching my son take his last breath and to not be able to do anything to help was the most horrific thing I have ever had to be a part of.  I feel as though I died with him that day, the pain was so intense.  The first several months after he left are a blur; the pain I felt kept me in a fog for a while. 

Then one day I could feel Meikel sitting next to me, urging me to get up and start moving and start my work.  I sat outside and saw a huge yellow butterfly.  I have not seen one like this before; its outline was black with bright strong yellow everywhere.  This butterfly kept hovering for a while, and I knew it was Meikel so I said "hi."

I attended a meeting where Susanne Wilson was speaking and she gave amazing confirmations, but nothing from my son.  A day or so later Susanne had a contest on her Facebook that the first 500 to “like” her site would win…I then got an email from her saying I had won a reading!  She told me during the reading that at the Helping Parents Heal meeting, my son had said not to give me a message because he had something special…an hour-length reading!  During the reading Susanne confirmed right away that the yellow butterfly was my son. 

A few days later I received a little package from Phoenix Children’s Hospital; it was a yellow butterfly pendant!  As time has passed, I am able to hear Meikel more and he gives me many validations all the time in different ways; some are direct and some are 
not.  I was driving to a meditation one evening and I could feel Meikel holding my hand, the most amazing feeling!  After the meditation I heard him say that in 2 years I would be doing something important and profound.  A day later I heard “Mom it's 2 years because I am still in school and we are both still learning.”

Since he has told me this, things have started to change.  I felt a nudge to become a minister so I went to seminary.  Not something I would have ever thought of!  Shortly after I was invited to become a board member of The Melonhead Foundation.  Then I woke up at 2am with the idea for a Bowl-a-Thon.  So last year I held the Inaugural Meikel Hansen Bowl-a-Thon.  My son orchestrated the whole event…I was just his hands. 

I miss Meikel terribly!!  He is my only child and I am a single mom.  He is my best friend, my best teacher, my best son.  I have learned many things on this journey and understand about the sacred contract I have with him which helps to ease pain a tad.  I am so grateful to him for all the many confirmations that he sends my way when I have doubts such as the yellow butterflies and the random birds with yellow heads and hummingbirds that have yellow.  These days he loves to give me flashes of light in my peripherals, or I will see a shadow of someone that just walked by and no one is there.

Meikel you are so amazing and MAGICAL.  I am blessed you chose me to be your mom.   


-Meikel's proud mom, Hanne 

The Ten Most Common Signs Deceased Loved Ones Give to Let Us Know They Are Around 

By Psychic Medium Karen Noé
 

After our loved ones cross over, they are very anxious to let us know they are okay and are aware of what is going on in our lives.  If we are not able to feel them around us, they will often give us signs that we cannot ignore. The person who is given the sign usually knows he or she is receiving a message from the other side. I always tell my clients that they do not have to look for signs – the signs will come to them.

The signs our loved ones give us most often are:
 
They come through as an animal. Our loved ones are able to use their energy to go inside of an animal, such as a butterfly, ladybug, bird, or dragonfly – for a brief period of time. The animal does something it usually would not do, such as land on us, peck at our window, scream at us, etc.
 
They place common objects such as feathers, coins, or rocks in our path. Our loved ones like to place things over and over again in our path that were significant to them. I have had clients come to me who have had jars filled with feathers, coins, and objects they have found in the most unusual places.
 

They give off fragrances. We can often tell our deceased loved ones are around us when we smell their perfume, flowers, cigar or cigarette smoke, or any other familiar smell they had. There is usually no logical explanation of why the smell is there.
 
They make songs come on at the perfect time. We know they are around when their favorite songs come on at the right time with the exact words we need to hear. Often the same song is played in many different places.
 
They come to us in dreams. One of the easiest ways for them to come through to us is in our dreams. All we need to do is to ask them to come, and they will. However, we should ask them to wake us up after they come, or else we will not remember the dream.  A dream that is a true visitation will be very peaceful and we will know it is truly our loved one. We will remember this type of dream in detail many years later. (On the other hand, a subconscious dream may be frightening or feel bad. This type of dream is not your loved one.)
 

They show us the same numbers over and over. They loved to give us numbers that are relevant to them or you, such as birthdates, anniversaries – or repeating numbers, such as 1111, 2222, 3333, etc. These numbers may appear on clocks, billboards, or any other familiar place.
 
They allow us to feel peaceful for no reason. When our loved ones are in the room, they usually make us feel so loved and at peace. It usually happens when we least expect it, so there is no logical explanation for our sudden bliss.
 
They place thoughts in our head. Because they in spirit form, our loved ones don’t have an audible voice. Therefore, they give us messages telepathically. Pay attention to thoughts that just “pop” into your head. We can tell the difference between our thoughts and theirs by backtracking our thoughts. If you can find the thought that triggered the thought of your loved one, it is probably your thought. If something your loved one would say just pops in your head for no reason, it is probably him or her speaking directly to you!
 
They love to play with electricity. They turn electricity on and off. They like to flicker lights, turn the television and radio on and off, and make appliances beep for no apparent reason.
 

They make buzzing noises in our ears. Because our loved ones speak to us on a different, higher frequency, we may hear ringing in our ears when they are trying to get our attention.  This is a sign telling you to listen to what they are saying.
 
The list can go on and on, but these are the most common ways they let us know they are around. If you haven’t received any of these signs, simply ask your loved ones to come to you to let you know they are okay.  Tell them to come to you in a dream and to wake you up after the dream. The more you are aware of the messages they are giving you, the more they will continue to allow you to know they are present. Be patient and persistent, and I promise that they will give you the signs you have always wanted.  They really are okay and want you to be too!
 
Angel blessings to you!
-Karen Noé
please visit this article on Karen's website here

Would you like to share a story of validation or healing with other Parents? 
We are all able to heal when we share personal stories about our children with others.  Moreover, everyone benefits from validations that we receive from our children.  We love to hear about them!  If you have a story that you would like to share about your child, please let us know and we will include it in a future newsletter.  Please send it to Elizabeth Boisson at evboisson@yahoo.com  (Due to space limitations, please be sure it is no longer than 1 page.) 

Also, if you have not yet done so, please send me your child's full name, Birthday and Angel Date so that I can add him or her to our list of children on our Facebook Site. We pay tribute to our children on their special dates with a favorite photo and a description of their lives.  Please send all information to Elizabeth at evboisson@yahoo.com


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Upcoming Group Meetings
Helping Parents Heal - Pensacola, hosted by Kristen Brown-Sanders, February 4th.  Please email Kristen for more information at kristensanders@mcshi.com or visit the event tab to sign up.Helping Parents Heal - Ottawa, hosted by Lynda Frost, February 1st and March 1st.  Please click here to RSVP for February and here to RSVP for March.Helping Parents Heal - San Diego, hosted by Maria Pe.  Please email Maria at maria.i.pe@hotmail.com for more information.Helping Parents Heal - New Jersey, hosted by Jennifer Amato and Christine Volpe - January 15th-Please visit the event tab to sign up.  
Helping Parents Heal - AZ, hosted by Elizabeth Boisson, January 22nd, with special guest Christine Salter.  Please visit the event page to sign up. February 26th with Thaddeus Ferguson.  Please visit the event page to sign up.Helping Parents Heal - NYC, hosted by  Sheri Perl Migdol    Sheri will not be holding a February meeting.  Please email Sheri at sheriperl.gmail.com for more information.Helping Parents Heal - Eureka, CA, hosted by Nancy Courtmanche.  Please email Nancy at hphgriefgroup@gmail.com for more information.
New Group!  Granger, IN-Glenda Pearson  Please email Glenda
 glendia456@aol.com for more information.
New Group!  Hilton Head, SC-Irene Vouvalides Please contact Irene
ivouvalides@aol.com for more information.
New Group!  Washington, DC-Lancy Carr. Please contact Lancy 
lncycrr@yahoo.com for more information.


















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