Pro Tip: Respond to Emotion continued
Your genuine interest/presence with the person will create the safety they need to absorb information and be able to go on.
Responding to emotion can be done in many ways. Last month, we introduced N.U.R.S.E. statements to name these ways.
- N - Name the emotion
"This news is so upsetting."
- U - use an Understanding statement
"I can hear how difficult this must be."
Try to keep it neutral/objective (“...how difficult this must be” rather than “you are having a difficult time with this”).
Again, don’t worry about getting it wrong—they will correct you and name the right emotion. Stay humble and curious—your patient will so appreciate feeling heard and "gotten".
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